Let’s talk about fashion and functionality—a real challenge for many of us with Osteogenesis Imperfecta (OI), also known as brittle bone disease. As a disabled artist, my body has unique proportions and limitations, which means finding clothing that fits, feels comfortable, and reflects my personal style can be a daunting task.
While many of us living with bone disease know the importance of adaptation in daily life, finding clothing—especially undergarments—that fits well and meets specific needs often requires creativity, patience, and a bit of luck.
Adaptive Clothing for Adults with Unique Needs
Shopping for clothes as an adult with a small frame can feel like navigating a minefield. Children’s sections are filled with bright colors, peace signs, and bedazzled butterflies—styles that don’t exactly scream “adult.” But adult clothing rarely comes in sizes that work for someone who’s 2’7”. Adaptive clothing organizations like Classy Little Fashions have been lifesavers for me, as has having a personal aide who doubles as a skilled seamstress.
However, even adaptive clothing brands often fall short when it comes to undergarments. And let’s face it: finding the right underwear and bras is already tricky for most women, but for those of us with disabilities, it’s an entirely different ball game.
The Struggle for Age-Appropriate Underwear
Ladies, let’s talk about the kids’ section. Sure, it’s where I find many of my clothes due to my size, but it’s not where I want to shop for my undergarments. Peace signs, days of the week, or cartoon puppies on my underwear? No, thank you. I prefer something modest, maybe even with a touch of lace or a fun print that feels age-appropriate.
After much trial and error, I discovered that a specific bikini style from Victoria’s Secret fits me perfectly. While they’re expensive, I stock up whenever there’s a sale. Pro tip: always have back-up panties—you never know when you’ll need them!
Adaptive Bras: Fashion Meets Functionality
If finding the right underwear is challenging, bras take it to another level. Living with brittle bones means certain designs, like underwires, are out of the question. They poke and risk breaking ribs, making comfort a non-negotiable priority.
Straps are another problem. They pull on my shoulders, aggravating my tendinitis and leaving me sore after just a few hours. Enter the Bandeau. For those unfamiliar, a Bandeau is a strapless bra that fits snugly around your chest. It’s simple, comfortable, and available in a variety of colors and styles. For someone like me, it’s a game-changer.
On days when rib pain flares up, I skip the bra altogether and opt for outfits that don’t require one. It’s all about adaptation and making things work for your body’s needs.
Adaptive Clothing for the Win
Navigating the world of fashion with art and disability in mind means finding creative solutions to unique challenges. Whether it’s customizing clothing for comfort or finding a bra alternative that works for a disabled artist with brittle bones, every piece of clothing tells a story of motivation and adaptation.
What’s your experience? Do you face similar challenges, even with a “typical” body? Let’s start a conversation and share tips. Sound off in the comments below!